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February 13, 2019 at 11:00 am #52025
By Sandy Rozek . . . “I’d like to talk to you about a situation involving a sex offender here in Georgia.” It was similar to dozens of calls I receive
[See the full post at: Media sex offender stories: missed opportunities to do some good]
February 13, 2019 at 12:52 pm #52032
A sign in yard pointing toward another person’s house saying pervert is defamation of character unless they can prove that you are indeed currently a pervert in the court of law. Pervert is not past tense they are saying that you still are and will be given the opportunity. What you did in the past cannot be assumed to be your present state in the court of law in a defamation lawsuit anyway we all know they have chosen to ignore this for other uses. Why could a good lawyer not make it stick?
February 13, 2019 at 5:21 pm #52043
File for restraint order. Judges disparage instigators. Sandy please inform the gentleman to make a video record of the harrasment. Every time Cops or DOC show up at my door, nor near it a video results. Derek at oncefallen gave me that tip. It isn’t even NECESSARY to turn it on only point it. Cell phones work too. Just the thought of videotape evidence deters. He could post signs giving notice of video surveillance, if actually in place of not. I got a bad feeling of he was afraid enough to call you.
SORNA = Bad juju!
February 13, 2019 at 5:22 pm #52041
Hello folks. I just wanted to say that its a lot easier to spread negativity about others especially about Sex Offenders than anything Positive. Its like many think that once a person is a Sex Offender, they are doomed for LIFE and are not able to be reintegrated back into society. WRONG. It just seems that no matter what GOOD a Sex Offender does in life, just being on the registry and for having that on their criminal record for anyone to look up is a lifetime of punishment. They are denied work, place to live, and etc. There are so many ways a person can become a Sex Offender and be required to register. Negative minds will not produce a Positive result. It saddens me to think our society, even Christians, will condemn anyone who is a Sex Offender no matter what happened. But to display any sign or signs with a Sex Offenders name and offense(s) in public is disturbing to me. This is why we have so much crime and problems in our society. Instead of finding positive solutions to these problems they are only adding to it. Lets ALL stop this degrading of Sex Offenders and try to help them have a normal life again to rebuild trust back into our society with out making things worse. If God can forgive, we can to.
February 13, 2019 at 8:03 pm #52047
2014: European Court Lets Users Erase Records on Web
Europe’s highest court said on Tuesday that people had the right to influence what the world could learn about them through online searches, a ruling that rejected long-established notions about the free flow of information on the Internet.
February 14, 2019 at 9:00 am #52062
Some intellectual groups are gaining strength with privacy in personal information concerns against the big data brokers utilizing person information for profit and without permission from those being exploited.
Identity theft is going to run amuck thus identity protection MUST now be purchased.
February 14, 2019 at 4:06 am #52054
Sandy I have to admit you do come up with some good articles and food for thought about a lot of this whole ordeal. I wonder what is worst being on the registry or being a around humans in todays touch and go world at the clck of a button. Its that quick click to that quick fix. I’ve said on here I’d rather be wrong 100% of the time than rather be right. Sure there is good and bad about this data base stuff but a lot of this fact vs truth is that we are all carnal by nature. Sure touching kids is a no no and those that get rapped up in all that well its a bit crazy but the flesh is weak.
Even our President is coming to light a bit about this abortion thing but thats a different subject all together, so someone may have a conscience. Of course nobody likes to have their consciense invaded by someone scamming someone or one could say blackmail or blackballing one.
Sure the article was good but reporters dont’ do that much study on this specific topic as the sex offender registry and the suffering some go thru. I know people always want to be right but than again who listens to foolish talk. Its like the newscastor is doing a report without much study as to the effects and the discrimination and hardships that are involved in all this.
Sure safety is good but when one is on the registry it appears to bring a person self-esteem down to a low level. So giving the true facts of some of this registry jazz doesn’t cut it for the general populas. I think the populus would rather vote for the over dog than the under dog.
February 14, 2019 at 3:50 pm #52083
I did not see a place to comment on the story. I don’t use FB, I did send the following email:
What was the point of this story? I found it very disturbing actually. My heart truly breaks for this woman, but also for the guy across the street. And what about the people and children who live on this street? It is noted that he lives next door to children. These children have to see this sign every day. How does this affect their mental health? Basically being told they should live in fear because this woman says they should? The parents of the children should best decide how they want to handle having a registrant living next door and what they do and do not tell their children. Not the neighbor across the street deciding for them with these signs. (I truly mean no disrespect to her)
All registrants are not the same. Case in point it was her father that harmed her. Most crimes of that nature are by family or people known to the child. Not the guy across the street. There are consequences for your actions and there should be! I don’t want a child hurt, I know up close what that is like, but to target someone like this is not healthy either. I know she means well and I can truly appreciate that and would never tell her how she should feel, but we need a balanced approach as a society.
Statistically “sex offenders” have one of the lowest recidivism rates. If you were to take a journalistic approach then this would be explored wouldn’t it? We would also explore just who are all these registrants. They vary tremendously. And why are we not doing more to educate people on signs of what to look for if their child is being abused by someone they know. And how to best talk to our young children in a healthy way to tell them to share with a trusted family member if someone asks them to do something uncomfortable or touches them.
This is a mental health problem and with the internet, on line sex crimes are increasing.…why? How best to help to stop this? This is what we need to talk about and get educated about so we can hopefully stop the cycle.
Purposefully setting out to publicly hate on a group of people, to almost assure they become unemployable, good shot at being homeless, that their families and children are harassed and shamed and separated says more about those who promote this than it does about the registrant. Instead of outreach to break the cycle after they have most likely served prison time, the government tells you, your local news tells you, you are forever a worthless person, not redeemable….and the whole world gets permission to do the same. That is a society moving backwards, not forward.
February 14, 2019 at 11:12 pm #52094
I’m glad you brought that up about this internet thing vs the actual physical ordeal. A violator [is defined as] anyone who ‘persuades, induces, entices or coerces any minor to engage in’ a visual depiction of sexually explicit conduct.” I wonder at times who is violating who if thats the case. If they want to get naughty and say that than they broke the law.
Its as if someone is tresspassing against someone or playing the bounty hunter without a conscience. Call government fake news if thats the case or are they juswt doing a devilishing job in all this. Excuse me for my language but I didn’t know gang banging for bucks was legal by law enforcment or inducing for bucks.Sounds a bit crass via the internet and downgrades those upstanding law enfocement that really deceive others..I wonder who was pursuading in a lot of this. Talk about trying and effort and who killed my cat someone is making big bucks out of this.
Sandy I think that should be a topic also in all this various type of sexual battery of the mind if you want to call it that.. I don’t think ministers of Justice are ordained to deceive people but who knows what’s going on in America today.
February 16, 2019 at 6:14 am #52132
Personal experience can appear to be such compelling evidence, that some people completely ignore data and facts. Whatever happened to Martin to make her so fearful and hateful of sex offenders I’m sure was very traumatic, but she and so many others like her need serious help to learn how to think critically of their own biases and preconceived notions. I’m glad the reporter interviewed Jones and at least put some of her quotes in the article, but regardless, this was definitely a missed opportunity. There’s no reason why the media can’t be both empathetic to victims and challenge their biases at the same time.
February 17, 2019 at 11:49 pm #52153
All these comments are good but one has to wonder about these opportunities. Did brenda actually miss the opportunity or was she not prepared at the given time. Opportunities come up all the time. Some are good and some are bad such as this sex registry we all go thru.
Yes we can put a bit of wisdom into all this and understand who is playing with fire or not but in the long run opportunity knocks if one persue’s it. While Sandy talks about facts and evidience in a Chapter 2 ordeal, one still has the opportunity, but a lot of this is about the man behind the inducing or seducing or should we all see a lot of this sex registry as man going above man in this public safety thing that is cheap for any government of true justice.
Prevention is good but deceiving or plain out lying to get the effect that these ministers of justice want is a bit of a vainglory hayride. I wonder who has a Pinocchino nose today in government.
February 18, 2019 at 9:29 am #52177
It was not Brenda who missed the opportunity. She was fully prepared and was interviewed for ten minutes; I was interviewed by phone for another ten minutes. It was the reporter and the decision of the station managers who missed the opportunity to present the facts and documented evidence they were given. I have since communicated with the reporter and one of the station managers appealing to them to give their reading and viewing public information grounded in facts that would help to calm fears of random registered citizens living in the community and at the same time give them a better idea of what was needed in order to help protect themselves and their children from sexual assault.
February 18, 2019 at 1:59 pm #52180
Why Sandy you got it right i’m impressed. The key word is decision. Sure we can all make a lot of choices some good or bad and yes we can all be lead down this primrose path of man’s dingy device in this ordeal. Media does like to play the facts and hard ball. Its all about money, ratings or one’s self-esteem. Seems that nature doesn’t play into this type of off color branding. Sometimes one has to wonder who is violent today.
Sure one can lump the sex offender in one lump, put a label on him or her but is man really killing man with this conscience inducment. Media has its job to do and I wonder where facts vs truth come in today in this nation.
February 18, 2019 at 8:49 pm #52191
It is not missed opportunity, it is censorship, and a Violation of the rights oof free speech, the media is not allowed to print a bias one sided story, regardless of who or what is talked about, it is not about retribution, but reconciliation for all parties. There is a serious flaw in deducing crime/punishment in this country! Society has turned bias towards men and over punishment and blurred truth has distorted reality when Justice is cheapened by the cry of the crowd’s and the quick fix is castration /long inprisonment and speedy trials that detroy the rights of accused to rebuttal and weed out truly sick/ troubled humans !!! Thanks ! 😁
February 19, 2019 at 6:44 pm #52244
With all due respect, I don’t believe the reporter or editor missed an opportunity. Seems to me the entire point of the article was to disparage the registrant community and keep the myth of the dangers posed by them alive. Sandy and Brenda were only contacted to cast the illusion of equal time and presentment of both sides of an issue.
For the most part, reporters could care less about the truth. Their first concern is ratings, readership, and clicks. It’s been shown time and again that they will exaggerate some and bury other details of any given circumstance in order to make for a more compelling story. Actual facts and circumstances are a very distant second. In that regard, they’re no different than most lawyers, but don’t have the restraints lawyers have to abide by.
February 22, 2019 at 12:16 am #52393
It would have been right and correct to say the media is not allowed to promote fear and histeria, that these individuals are to be left alone, law requirements and penalties have been met in accordance with the law and any attempt to perpetuate animosity, fears hate, vigilantism or smear at ex prisoners will not be tolerated and law suits will follow, this includes medias that hounds or presents ex prisoners with contempt while the Constitution prohibits harassment, habitual emphasis on specific issues dealing with public matters that incourages retaliation and strife / hate/ Civil unrest…which shall be proven unlawful and accountable! !! We are not exerting enough legal muscle against those that are destroying the lives of all registrants/ family / friends etc…. PLEASE LET US WORK TOGETHER TO STOP THIS OUT OF CONTROL TRAIN !!! I WANT TO GET OFF !!! AND I KNOW YOU DO TOO !!!
February 22, 2019 at 12:17 am #52392
Yea, yea, bla bla…you know my point!
It is well known and obvious …missed opportunity is quite minor compared to what our true and most important focus should be,,,not bickering back and forth about details of this madness called REGISTRY !!! The law must be forced with facts, proof and evidence of the garbage presented to the judicial system and the public…we must focus on helping each other in any way for survival and mounting legal suites against, restrictions and fundamental lies and abuses dished out against targeted registrants, I hope to have a new law suit challenging a house I purchased before I moved in a day care opened up and prohibited me from my own home….ITS A MAD HOUSE !!!!
February 22, 2019 at 6:40 am #52410
Whether it was a missed opportunity by the reporter doing the interview or the NARSOL team presenting the facts the bottom line is who justify’s who or one’s media clout or honest news. See man has always wanted to justify every thing they do when in an authority over others. Sure the one on the registry has rights and those that speak up for those on the registry have rights too like Brenda and Sandy.
It is apauling to think that the opportunity was missed by Brenda or Sandy as they have been at this rashional laws for the sex offender for several years and I’m sure they know what they are talking about. I myself when I write my governor to see about a redress of grivance it seems to be wasted time but one thing the law can’t go against is the two=edged sword. And I’m sure everyone on here can sound off in many ways with this registry in many ways that take no prisoner. Now when they do it in a sneeky way thats not justice that is bias or getting over one if you may say that .
Opportunities come up all the time if one open’s their eyes and ask. I hope we all remember the slogan. Ask not what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country.. I believe JFK said that. So speaking up is the opportunity. I’d go on face the nation if I were NARSOL and I’m sure it would be more focused.