(reposting because I forgot to click the “I’m Not A Robot” thingy. Hope it doesn’t get posted twice by mistake..
POF (Plenty of Fish) doesn’t have a SO ban. I know, I’ve used it. I even paid for a membership for a short time until I realized it was pointless to pay for an already FREE service. The paid membership just allows you to see if the person you messaged read the message.
But I wouldn’t recommend POF. Too many fakes and even more who are just flakes and use it as an ego boost.
Also, OkC (Ok Cupid) is free to message people. They do have a ban on SO’s though so just make up a name. Screw this crap that we can’t continue living our lives. I’m sick of it