If you do not feel that you are a sex offender after 13 years. That proves that sex offender therapy does not work. They constantly remind you that you are the lowest thing on earth a sex offender. They want you to identify as a sex offender. even if what you did may not be considered a sex offense you will come out of therapy feeling dirty. How can that help a person. They make you take lie detector test to see if you ever have a sexual thought or masturbate. Because no one should ever have a sexual thought that’s not normal. It is a very sick system meant to destroy the offender. but it doesn’t always take. I am not a sex offender. No registry or therapy will ever make me identify as a sex offender! They failed.